A genetics counselor spoke at last year's XLH Day, and her presentation was taped, so you can see it at youtube:
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You might suggest to your son that he consult a genetics counselor, just for his peace of mind. I believe the speaker in that video gives a website where you can locate accredited counselors.
Personally, and this is just me speaking, and I'm not a doctor, just a layperson, but it seems HIGHLY unlikely that your son could transmit the mutation that causes XLH. Technically, he couldn't pass along the X-linked version of hypophosphatemia, because it's a dominant condition, so if he had the mutation in his genes, he would also have the condition and, at a minimum, low phos in the blood. He also couldn't pass along the ADHR (Autosomal Dominant Hypophosphatemic Rickets) version, because it, too, is dominant.
There have, I believe been a vanishingly few number of reported cases of a recessive version, but the odds against having that are astronomical.